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[lliira]

So turns out yet another guy who loudly, publicly self-pleasures over his own "feminism" treats the women in his life like shit.

This is my totally shocked face.

If a man's a feminist, he's probably fine. Most men are, after all. My husband's a feminist. But if a man is LOUD about his feminism? If he transparently thinks he's a better man than all other men because he's a feminist? No. Get away. Better to date a guy with a boob inspector ballcap who makes "get me a sandwich, woman!" jokes.

I especially love how he blames the patriarchy for his actions instead of himself. Outside of Hollywood and certain gross internet corners, cheating on your wife, particularly multiple times with much younger women over whom you have power, is seen as completely disgusting.

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[silveradept]

Ah. There's the reason why Whedonesque feminism never felt right - because it's still a lot of bombast and not a lot of action.

[lliira]

Oh, there's a lot of action. Of a certain kind. (ba-dum-tish)