I'd definitely agree with that. Firstly in that she is not really poly at all so much, as you say, entitled and misogynistic, and secondly that I haven't met too many people that are poly (at least, not that I know of?) but I can say my sister is and she's never judged me AT ALL for being monogamous. We talked about it once and I was like "yeah, I've really only got so much energy and one relationship is all the emotional upkeep I could do" and she's like "yeah that sounds right for you" and I was like "I think I'd be ok if my partner wanted other partners though, it might even be helpful for me" and she was like "yeah maybe" and that was it. (And my sister was THE most judgey about meat-eaters when she first when vegan, so if someone was gonna be judgey about poly/mono she would be)
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Date: 2013-07-14 05:00 pm (UTC)