They definitely have no idea what they're doing. What's weird to me is that three separate incompetencies could all have exactly the same really weird quirks. I feel like there must be some part of society that I'm unaware of for all these women to think breath is a turn-on, and to write like a woman who's aroused has no control over anything and can't think of anything but her arousal. At least LKH calls it arousal in so many words, unlike the other two.